Let’s talk about good vibrations

Dolly Parton famously said “The way I see it, if you want a rainbow you have to put up with the rain.”

The word abundance is one of my favourites BUT I spent so many years believing that it was void in my life.  That the feeling of abundance would never feel natural to me.  What a mistake that was!

My mum had a way of speaking that sounded well, negative.  She had a way of phrasing things that put a downer on stuff.  For example she would say “careful how you fall down those stairs” rather than “be careful on the stairs love” or “I guess you won’t be helping me today” instead of “would you mind giving me a little help today?”

When you have lived in a negative environment for a long time it can be tricky to get out of physically.  It can be hard to make that shift in our minds too but maybe I can help you with that today?

I didn’t realise that to bring abundance into our lives we need to actively tap into it.   We need to ask for it and allow it to come to us.  If you think that is woo woo read on.

I am not talking about putting a happy sticker over an empty fuel tank.  I am not asking you to pretend to be happy wearing an empty smile.  

However low we feel, we can change tiny bit by tiny bit.  Notice I use the word low.  When we are feeling down or low it is linked to our vibration – the energy we give out and feel in.  When we are extremely happy and excited, we call it feeling high.  Then we are in high vibration – giving out high energy and feeling that inside too.

Let me give you an example. 

I was talking to a guy online who was feeling very low.  His career has gone due to Covid (airline pilot), at 59 he felt like a one trick pony and had no other real skills to offer.  He was the carer of his 3-year-old whilst his wife worked 6 days a week.  He has no time to do anything that HE wants to do.  His conversation was very heavy, and he was extremely frustrated.

I explained to him about vibration and explained that it was going to be very difficult to find the success he was wanting from there.  “But I am trying so hard” he replied.  Trying hard is ok but when it is from a place of low vibration, the universe is not hearing you.  I suggested that he find one little thing that made him smile – a moment with his son.  The feeling of the sun on his face – he lives in Dubai.  I also suggested that he change up his language.  (See examples I gave from my Mum!).  I copied his Facebook message to me and pasted it into word.  I jigged it about so it said the same thing but with a higher energy vibration and sent it back to him.  

He loved it and said that he would work on raising his vibration.   It is now 3 days later, and he has made the first sale in the online business he is half-heartedly starting.  He is elated.  His vibration is high – very high.  The sales will come now.  He is certain of that and so am I.  

In summary, listen to how you talk to yourself and others.  Consider how you think.  Is it from a low or high vibration?  What can you do to raise your vibration higher?  If this interests you please do some googling on high vibration and keep doing the work. It works!